The Puzzling Calls and the One Question
I'm Thinking of Ending ThingsThe Caller’s refrain links the narrator’s private anxiety to the novel’s growing insistence that one decision remains unanswered.
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The First Strange Voice

The First Strange Voice
An unexpected call
A man with an unusual, strained voice calls the narrator after she returns from meeting Jake. She initially dismisses him as a wrong number.
An ordinary event turns odd
The caller’s voice lingers in her memory, but she has no reason yet to connect it with her new relationship or her private thoughts.
The Number Repeats

The Number Repeats
Calls from her own phone
The narrator sees missed calls from her own number, often in the middle of the night. The impossible-looking detail makes the calls harder to explain.
Fear grows in secrecy
She saves the messages but does not tell Jake. An unexplained technical anomaly becomes an emotional secret.
A Message Repeats

A Message Repeats
One wording returns
The Caller leaves the same message about fear, assumptions, and a question that must be answered. The repeated wording sounds sad and increasingly ominous.
The question enters the story
The phrase becomes a refrain that reaches beyond the phone. It connects the caller’s intrusion with the narrator’s relationship doubts.
A Sudden Addition

A Sudden Addition
A message turns personal
One voicemail adds that the Caller knows what the narrator looks like and specifically mentions her nail biting. The change makes the calls feel intimate and threatening.
The body becomes evidence
A habit she has had for years becomes proof, in her mind, that someone is watching. Fear shifts from abstract worry to perceived physical surveillance.
The Question’s Final Shape

The Question’s Final Shape
Refrain reinterpreted
The Caller’s one-question language gains meaning beside the final choice facing Jake. The phone messages seem to anticipate a decision that the narrator cannot resolve.
No caller’s answer
The novel does not give the voice a simple independent explanation. Its role is to focus the narrative on the unresolved question of whether to continue.
The night of the Campus Pub meeting
The following nights
Several days after the first call
Before the trip to the farm
At the close of the novel